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14/f
My exboyfriend/friend told me he loved me and got me single and commited only to him for two months. Then we fooled around (no sex) and he's not been the same. Tonight He just went off on me for asking him if he lied to me.
"Yea I lied to you. I felt bad for you and your lonely ass. I felt bad for you this whole year. you'be always been beneath me (he's a foot taller and literally means it. He feels bad cuz he's even told me he feels like he's got more authority just by being bigger) and youre mad because I never flet the same way about you. I'm not even trippin right now so you can say whatever you want and get lost."
He told everyone he knew that he scored...
I'm really trusting and wanted to believe everything he'd tell me because I really thought he cared. But apparently not.
He begged me to stay with him. He cried after randomly blowing up multiple times at me and apologizing. He did everything to make me believe he cared.
I'm naive and believed him.
Can guys really lie like this, this easily??? Should I not trust guys anymore??? because honestly, I'm scared....I know just saying straight out that I'm scared may seem a bit irrational but...really. I don't want to go through this ever again.
any advice will be greatly appreciated. really any, you have no idea. (link)
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That does not sound like a true boyfriend if you ask me, Not only is he extremely immature but manipulitive at the same time. You need to decide for yourself, Is this what you really want to deal with? You are only 14, He will not be the only one you date in your lifetime and I can guarrantee it. Any guy who lies in a relationship is not only dishonest but as time goes on and you fall into his lies it only gets worse. I think you need to get rid of this guy he doesn't sound worthwhile. Not only does he look down at you but he manipulates you. Don't let him do the whole sympathy story "Oh please take me back, I'm sorry I love you" stand your ground you are stronger than that. If you continue to stay with him not only will he continue to make you feel 2 feet tall but he might continue to manipulate you as well as he now knows he can get away with it. You need to stand up for yourself and let him know that you won't tolorate his shit.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you so much for you advice :) really! I appreciate it!
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