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Hi, I'm Brittney, I'm a junior in college. don't ever feel hesitant to ask me a question, I will never judge you. Be completely honest and I will give you the best answer I can give, 100% of the time. A fun fact about me- I'm a triplet!advice
So I was on yahoo with the guy I like..and we talked for like an hour. I was the one coming up with everything to say. He laughed often..but barely talked. He said the occasional "yep" or "wow". Finally, I mentioned something from the past, an old friend. He finally started talking..but it got boring again. So..I kinda question if I like him still or not and/or if he even likes talking to me? And, then I went on his profile because he updated it. He said he's looking for a girlfriend. But, he said his interest is for spanish girls? I mean, obviously I know guys prefer certain girls..but now I feel like I probably have no chance because I'm well.. white haha. I'm sure that sounds stupid haha. But, I don't knoww. I know he used to like me a lot for years..which doesn't make sense now but whatever. Anyway..I'm not sure if that means anything? I'm thinking of just giving up on this guy. My love life totally sucks. Guys who like me seem not to ask me out, and guys who do ask me out..are the one's im not interested in. :( Please helpp!
Im sorry for his profile update, thats a tough break, especially if he did this intentionally. Its not stupid that you think that, any girl would think the same. And I think that we should set the record straight right now; even if guys are into certain girls, whether it be their nationality or the color of their hair, they should never list it publicly on their myspace page or anywhere else for that matter. Honestly, if he's not into you that really is a loss for him. He shouldnt profile you by your race, because you cant be spanish, and you never will. But you could have been a really great girlfriend.
And I know that it seems like your love life sucks right now, but trust me there are plentyyy of fish in the sea, and once school comes around guys will be everywhere and you can focus on someone new, which, in my opinion will make him go crazy that he didnt get you. You just have to trust me when I tell you that when its the perfect time, a really cute guy will ask you out, and you guys will be an amazing couple. Just be a little more patient, and dont be afraid to test the waters. :-)
As for letting him go or not, its completely up to you, either way is in your favor. Its great if you guys end up hanging out, and its great if you dont because you will move on from him, but he will always have to wonder if he made a bad decision or not.
For now, I would try to let him do a little more of the talking, just so that your situation can clear up as to whether or not he wants to be with you.
Good Luck sweety :-) keep your head up, and have some confidence...maybe a girl night out will help you clear your mind? Home remedy facials are amazing, just an idea!
(Rating: 5) Thankyou so much! And I do really agree with the not posting what nationality/hair color they prefer! It's just so annoying haha. I will use your advice, and just let him do the talking so I can see whether or not he's interested at all! But, anyway, thankyou so much again!:)