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him: 15/M

Okay. So I'm like super nervous to hang out with this boy. Here's what happened. I met him a few months ago and we swapped numbers, yadayadayada. Anyway, for like a month we just didn't text, and then a few weeks ago we started again, I don't know, we just did. Well, we really got to know eachother for the first time because I never see him (he is a year older and goes to a diferent school) and well, I think I really like him. He started to call me and we would talk on the phone at night, and then he asked me on a date... And I said yes.

Well now here's the tricky part. See, first off, he IS a year older, and quite a bit more experienced than me. He has made out, and I've never even been kissed. He wants to kiss on our date, but, well I just don't know... Also, I am totally scared that it is going to be so awkward. Because, I can't really remember very wonderfully what he looks like. I could recognize him if I saw him (I think!?), but I don't know if he remembers me that well. He says he does, but what if he doesn't? What if he thinks I'm like super ugly and stuff? Plus, since this is pretty much our first time meeting in person, I just think it is going to be so awkward...

Any advice? Tips? Something to calm me down? Kissing tips would be great, advice on how to make the date less awkward or what to do on a first date because I am SOOO new at this... Plus, what do I do if I he starts moving too fast? Help!?

PS: We are going to see a movie if that helps (link)


Well,

I'm going to have to disagree with the whole movie thing that Jack suggested below only because if it is your first time meeting in person you two might want to talk and get to know each other. If you go to a movie that will get in the way of communication! As far as the awkwardness just relax! I'm sure you are not the only one who is going to be nervous. Just be yourself as far as kissing goes just let the moment come to you. You will know what too do when it happens it is sort of one of those natrual things it just happens. If you two want to have fun then why not go for a walk on the beach? afterall it is romantic and it is summer! :) Relax girly, You'll be just fine.


-Bahaima22


Rating: 5
Thanks! I totally see what you mean.




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