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im 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. he has beaten me up in the past and even broken my thumb before. i know abuse is a cycle and it has to be broken but i of course thought things might work out and i stayed because i have nowhere else to go either and no one else in my life to help me right now. he knows he has total control because i dont work right now so he controls everything in my whole life. if things dont go his way then he just hits me. i do want to leave but i have no one and no im not going to a shelter and he knows that so he just keeps doing what he wants to. the point is what can i do to get out of this besides going to a shelter. if i leave and go to a shelter then i need to leave my dog behind and i dont even know if he will care for her or not when i leave and like i said i have no one to help me and im starting to think he likes it that way. what should i do?????????... (link)
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Ugh..my heart just breaks hearing these sorts of things.
Girl, You need to leave. Trust me, I am a victim myself of a past abusive relationship and it is not pretty and doesn't become pretty. Men who hit woman have no respect for themselves yet alone there partner. You cannot make this work and he DOES NOT deserve you. You dont' have no family members that could help you? Frankly, I would rather stay at a shelter than take the abuse and I know that might be hard for you to hear but it's the truth. You don't deserve it, You didn't do anything wrong. You need to know you cannot stay in this relationship and you have tried to make it work and it didn't.. Therefore you owe yourself that much to leave. There is this saying.."There is ALWAYS a way out" even if it is staying at a shelter. There is also helplines you can call, If you don't want to go to any shelter.. than maybe look into a womans shelter.
If you continue to stay with him, He will only get worse and you are telling him that it is okay when it is NOT okay at all. Call the police, If you are scared then call when he is not around or go to a friends house, neighbors house and pick up the phone. You need to get out and please don't wait
If you need anymore help Please feel free to IM me
-BahaiMa22
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Thank you so much!!!..PLEASE IM ME SOMETIME TO TALK MORE ON AIM.
xxdont4get143xx
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