This is more a question for the ladies, but men are perfectly welcome to answer it too.
I'm a guy (obviously) and I've had long hair since I was about 17 or so (I'm 23 now). From a personal standpoint I like having long hair but I'm beginning to wonder if people see something different than what I really am when they look at me. This is especially true of the women I've dated. I seem to attract the type of women who are the complete opposite of me. Myself I'm fairly deep into the conservative side of things, I'm religious, etc... But my exes, who were attracted to guys with long hair, were almost my complete opposites on many views which eventually resulted in break-ups. I've been called a "hippie" and a few other things when I'm actually a very conservative soul.
So I guess my questions are... Do some women (possibly the ones that I would like to be with) take guys with long hair seriously? What is your first impression about the personality of a long haired guy? Do we all seem like flippant elf-boys on first glance?
I'm looking for honest opinions, not what you "THINK you'd think" but rather what you really do think if that makes any sense. And if you find this topic funny, feel free to laugh, as I am laughing right now when writing it. Also, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I couldn't think of a better one, even the relationship category.
This is just MY opinion...
Generally, I like guys with shorter hair. To me it just looks... more masculine, more professional, and usually... cleaner.
I actually had this conversation with a guy friend recently. He's a teacher's aid and was wondering if perhaps he should cut his hair to appease both the faculty and the parents. While that shouldn't matter... I did tell him the same thing... And that, when he had cut his hair before, I had really liked it.
You could always try cutting it and if you don't like it, just grow it back out. ;)
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thanks for the response
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