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18 female.
guys think i'm pretty, so i have confidence but i am just the WORST when it comes to talking to a guy. i've been good friends with this guy for awhile, you would think i would be 100% comfortable with him but everytime i see him i get those butterflies and its like the first time we met all over again. i get all shy at first, i don't say much because i don't want to end up saying something stupid. when we text i always end up sounding needy, when really i'm trying to be flirty. for instance on wednesday we were wrestling and flirting and then we were texting after i left and i was like i'm soo mad at you for giving me a bruise, it's going to take alot for me to not be upset with you and he was like ha stop. and i was like no i'm mad(being like sarcastic) and i was like if you give me a massage i will not be mad ;) and he was like nah too much work and i was like wow your gonna get it next time i see you, and i'm not saying its going to be good and he was like what am i gettin haha and i was like you'll see, its not gonna be good for you lol. and then i like kept saying that he needed to like do this and that for me to not be "mad" at him. its my way of flirting but i realized i sound REALLY needy, which is going to push him away. i don't know really how to be sexy when with him in person and texting. i just end up sounding dumb. how can i change this. i want him to know i WANT him, if you know what i mean. i'm lost :( (link)
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Try different things and try not to over-do it. What you've said above, Even though you think you were being flirty if I was the guy I would probably be annoyed. I'm not saying this to be mean or anything so forgive me here.
1. What you said sounded like you were taking it too literally. Although you were flirting you were texting him and sometimes people see things differently with words than with action.
2. I'm not saying you do, but for a heads up try not to be to clingy as most of the time it draws the guy in the other direction.
(Flirting Tips:)
1. Eye contact is important, It shows them that you are interested in what they are talking about (Smile, while you are making contact might throw them a clue that you are interested in not only what they are saying but them as well) If you know this guy personally then why not go for it and ask him out? Ask him to the movies, etc.
(Things I Forgot add below me,)
You could also try wearing makeup, doing your hair, changing your clothing when you see him (Try not to give the wrong impression though) ;)
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