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ok. um, this is kinda...akward...and scary.
so, me and this guy (we'll call him L) have been going out for the past year. he's one year older than me. L's always been real sweet about the whole sex thing, but lately, he's been...pushing, and i'm kinda scared, cause he's getting kinda angry/violent. i'm scared he's really gonna hurt me, cause he hit me last week when i made him stop, taking of clothes and stuff.
I dont know what to do.
Help?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? (link)


Like the first person said, You do not need a guy that is going to hit you because he doesn't respect your wishes. If he abused you then you need to tell someone close to you that you trust. Any guy thath its a girl is ABUSIVE. Don't even forgive him, It will only tell him he can get away with it and you never know if he will do it again. He is not even worth it, You deserve someone who is going to respect you and how you feel. The right person will wait patiently for you as long as it takes. Don't let him talk you into doing something you don't want to do. Honestly, If he hit you I think it's time for you to leave him.


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thanks. i'll definitly leave him...soon. i need to work up with it and wait till i see him again.
do you think it's a good idea to break up face-to-face or over the phone/text message/IM? i'm kinda scared that if i do it face-to-face he might hit me again. he hasn't hit me JUST one time.
what should i do???




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