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I think I might be racist =(
I don't like Hispanic men. HOWEVER, my best friend is Hispanic (she's a girl), and I have no problem whatsoever with Hispanic females at all, its just the males.
I have had three relationships with Hispanic guys, all of which were miserable (not abusive or anything like that, I was just extremely unhappy). My last boyfriend was Hispanic, and I've decided I'm not dating another Hispanic guy again, because at first I might like him, but then the more time we spend together, the more I notice the accent, the more it irritates me, and I've noticed that they are all very touchy-feely, they always want to be holding hands or kissing.
So now at this point I just don't talk to any Latino men unless I have to. I just avoid them, but of course I'm not rude to them or anything like that, I treat them the way I would like to be treated, the way I treat anyone else. For example I sit next to a Mexican man in one of my classes, and he was having trouble with his computer so I volunteered my help. But otherwise I avoid making any conversation.
I hate this, I don't like having this problem. How do I make my racial issues go away?
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I wouldn't say you are racist, I think you've just had a few bad exsperiences and you have convinced yourself that you are. You simply just might perfer your own kind and that is okay. There are people out there who just want to be with there own kind, That doesn't mean that you are racist. Not all Mexicans and Hispanic folks have a bad attitude. However, If you perfer maybe you should just be friends or stay with your own kind if that is what makes you comfortable.
BahaiMa22
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I never said I prefer my own kind, I have and would date an Asian or African American man, etc.
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