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I'm 30, have a husband (3 years) and have feelings for someone else. the other person i met at a conference. we spent a lot of time that week together. he knows i'm married and he has a girlfriend so not much happened between us physically. i've never cheated before in my life. i dated a lot before i got married but have never had this kind of instant connection with someone before and it makes my heart warm and my stomach hurt everytime i think about him. he lives a 2 hour plane ride from me but i happened to be in his town for business last week. we met for a drink, talked about how we were doing for a couple of hours, hugged goodnight and that was it. now it's even worse - i can't stop thinking about him, it's affecting my daily life. i know it's stupid to think about leaving my husband and moving to be with him but i really can't help but this about it. i need some advice on what i can do to either help my current relationship so i can forget about this guy, and/or what you think i should do, if anything about him and/or how can i stop thinking about this other guy this way.
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I'm not sure what the relationship is between you and your husband but may be you just aren't happy?
Honestly, This one is up to you. I can help you with my own opinion though. Honestly, Sometimes even though a person is married to someone we still don't find the right person until later in life. If you feel this person is the one for you and you have a strong connection with him as he does for you then you've got some thinking to do. Let me lay down some questions. :)
1. What do you think is the best thing for YOU and why?
If you aren't happy with your current husband then maybe it is indeed time to move on. If you think you can manage moving and being with this guy then maybe it is what you should do. However, If you do decide to go about it remember you should do it the right way and that is divorce. Time is short, but life goes on. The divorce may be hard to over come but remember it's better than cheating on your husband and if it all works out then you will be set to be married again on possibility.
BahaiMa22
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Thanks so much for your help. sometimes you just need to hear someone's elses thoughts. i'm not sure what's best for me, let alone why - obviously if i can't answer that, I have some thinking to do.
Thanks. It's nice to have an ear.
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