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Okay im 17 and i love my boyfriend to death! We have talk about babies a few times and we both want one but our only problem is that we have no money so we dropped the subject, well atleast he did. I really want one but i dont know why. I thought it was just a faze but i been wanting one for awhile now! I love babies. Im going to college to be a midwife and ultrasound tech. Its a possibility that i may be pregnant now but i wont know til this weekend. I dont know how he will react if i was but if im not i may be real upset. I dont really like kids though lol well kids that im not use to. They all seem so bad but my lil brother is one of the baddest kids i know and i love him soo much! Maybe because he was raised around me so he listens to me. Hummm i think i would be a good mother and i know i would love my kid even as it grows cause i mean its mine. What do i do? Do i talk to him about having one? Or just keep praying that the subject pops up and he tells me that he's ready? Im young but i know i can do it. i dont know help? =] (link)


This might not be what you want to hear but..

Think about this, You are 17 and you want a kid?!
I know babies are cute, but they are a TON of work. Not only you, but your boyfriend also will need a full time job with income. Babies are NOT cheap. They require diapers, formula, clothes, crib, baby chair, toys, food, etc. The baby should live in an enviroment that is healthy and stable. It's only fair to the child. You don't have a baby because it's cute or adorable that is not a good enough reason to even be thinking about it. If you really want a baby maybe you should look at a dog for now and wait until you and your boyfriend are married. You don't want to have a baby and be living at your parents house. You are better off waiting trust me.



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Lol that isnt what i wanted to hear but its the truth! Thanks i do want my baby to have everything in the world so ill wait til i cant give it to him/her.
Thanks for being honest! =]




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