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Okay so basically I was with a guy for a good few months, we broke up in December because of some really crap reason (I didn't visit him when I said I would as I was in hospital, but no one told him?).

Anyways when I tried to sort things out I knew something wasn't right when he didn't tell me he loved me like usual over the phone.. I go to his place but he doesn't answer (then proceeds to tell me that i DIDN'T go to his place at all). The next day I find out he has gotten back with his ex who he broke up with a couple of months before we got together.. apparently she cheated on him and he doesn't give second chances but yet they are back together? I am so confused, I know he is bad for me yet I still have feelings for him?

His current girlfriend has been on msn messenger to me ragging on me telling me im weird etc etc because I ended up in hospital and how could my ex love me as we werent together that long etc.. we were together longer than she and he were.

I don't really know what to do, should I keep fighting to get him back as i really thought we were perfect for each other? Or should I move on...

Thanks for all your help :) (link)

Well,

Honestly, It sounds like your ex boyfriend never truely got over his ex-girlfriend. I would block her from msn so she can't contact you. I would try and move on, As he is simply not worth your time. If he didn't talk to you first then obviously something was clearly wrong all along. You need to know that you are too good for him, You are better than that and most importantly he is just not worth fighting for. It sounds like he was still in contact with his ex girlfriend while you and him were together (I could be wrong, I'm just guessing) Try not to let it hurt you too much, because there are so many more guys out there trust me.


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BahaiMa22


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Thank you you are so right!!




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