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Ex Boyfriend but I still have feelings for him...
Okay so basically I was with a guy for a good few months, we broke up in December because of some really crap reason (I didn't visit him when I said I would as I was in hospital, but no one told him?).
Anyways when I tried to sort things out I knew something wasn't right when he didn't tell me he loved me like usual over the phone.. I go to his place but he doesn't answer (then proceeds to tell me that i DIDN'T go to his place at all). The next day I find out he has gotten back with his ex who he broke up with a couple of months before we got together.. apparently she cheated on him and he doesn't give second chances but yet they are back together? I am so confused, I know he is bad for me yet I still have feelings for him?
His current girlfriend has been on msn messenger to me ragging on me telling me im weird etc etc because I ended up in hospital and how could my ex love me as we werent together that long etc.. we were together longer than she and he were.
I don't really know what to do, should I keep fighting to get him back as i really thought we were perfect for each other? Or should I move on...
Thanks for all your help :)
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Hey there :)
Well in all honesty, leave this dude alone. It's bad enough what he did, and yet his 'current girlfriend' is messaging you and bothering you? You must have alot of patience lol. Leave this guy alone, feelings come and go, and Im sure you can find someone capeable of being truthful with you and able to love you. First of all, this chick has NO reason to message you to brag about their relationship, it just shows how immature she is, trying to get under your skin. Secondly, if he isn't fighting against her, why should you fight for him? Sounds harsh but it's the truth. As I usually tell people, value yourself :) There are other guys out there, just have to give chances you know? Good luck!
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Move on.
He's a selfish little child, and she's just a nut bar. They are a match made in the deepest pits of hell. Don't speak to either of them. Just leave them to rip eachother apart like the wild dogs they are.
It wasn't that long. In a little while, you'll feel better and the feelings will fade.
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Well,
Honestly, It sounds like your ex boyfriend never truely got over his ex-girlfriend. I would block her from msn so she can't contact you. I would try and move on, As he is simply not worth your time. If he didn't talk to you first then obviously something was clearly wrong all along. You need to know that you are too good for him, You are better than that and most importantly he is just not worth fighting for. It sounds like he was still in contact with his ex girlfriend while you and him were together (I could be wrong, I'm just guessing) Try not to let it hurt you too much, because there are so many more guys out there trust me.
xxxx
BahaiMa22
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