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Distance Relationships
Ok so I met this guy on the internet, I live in Minnesota he lives in Canada, we have been talking for oh 3-4 years? We have talked on the phone and seen each other on webcam. Basically I want to meet him now and he wants to meet me. We want to be together but obviously haven't gotten that close til we meet. Anyways I recently went away for ten days forgot my cellphone and when I came back had a message from him saying "I get the hint, you're ignoring me" WHICH I TOTALLY WASN'T! So eventually I got to tell him I forgot my cellphone etc etc.. and we ended up talking about how he doesn't think I will come and visit or stay and I don't want to be with him etc (he thought I went back to my ex cause I didn't talk to him for ten days).
I really like this guy, I have a major major crush on him which is odd, because I am 20 years old. I just love his personality and I am falling for him big time, he has told me that he is falling for me, but I DON'T KNOW if it's all just a game to him or anything.
I know this question is confusing and long, but I really don't know what to do, this is how my mind is working right now. Hopefully someone has been in the same situation?
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I know the feeling.
I'm in a long distance relationship right now and have been for a little over two years. My boyfriend and I met on myspace of all places and things are working wonderfully right now.
I guess what you both need to do is talk seriously about what you want from each other. The first step would be meeting each other. I'm sure sparks will fly once you two get the opportunity to be face to face. Once that happens everything should fall into place.
My biggest piece of advice to to continue to be honest with him and ask that he be honest with you as well. When my boyfriend and I first starting talking about a relationship we asked each other what we wanted to come of it and how we were going to go about obtaining that. You can't do anything until you know where each other stand.
Hopefully that helped. If you ever wanna chit chat about this feel free to IM me.
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Hi there :)
Well, long distance relationships are tricky... friendships as well... But it seems you guys have seen eachother...heard eachother... the only step really IS meeting. How old is he? Is he older than you? According to his behavior, do you think he is mature enough to handle a long distance relationship? Or is he so immature he'd toy with your feelings this way? My suggestion is, get to know him (although you guys have known eachother for 4 years). Ask him questions like what he thinks about you guys being together... ask him questions you wanna know. And in the end... if you guys can come up with a date of meeting halfway, I'm sure it will work out. Be careful though =]
best of luck: Flirty :)
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