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hello everyone, my fiance' and I got engaged this past summer because we do love each other. He proposed on the beach, but ALL we do is fight. We've been fighting since last january on and off but now we don't even get along. I bought us our own house and we now live together. We always just get into fights and we always cry. I just want our relationship to be happy again. He says I always "bitch" constantly (but he never cleans up after himself and never gives me hardly any affection) He told me recently that the dog treats him better then I do and he hates living with me. I can admit I can be somewhat controlling but it just hurts me that I never get any affection. We're both stubborn and try talking to each other about how we feel but nothing ever changes. Please give me advice about how to make my engagement better before we get married (this april!) I just can't marry someone who verbally abuses me a lot, but I love him, so please don't tell me to leave him! Thanks so much! (link)
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Try a marriage conselour,
However, I will give my full honest opinion it might not be what you wish to hear though...
If you can't stand each other, Can't live together than why be together? Try talking to him about how it makes you feel that you two aren't connecting well, That you don't feel loved and you feel like you two are drifting apart. You two could be fighting alot because of stress, I'm not saying it's the reason why but sometimes couples fight when they stress out. Try taking some time apart (maybe a few hours a day) Sometimes that helps. Do something you both enjoy doing together, Get out more and have fun.
Sorry I couldn't be much more of a help..
BahaiMa22
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Rating: 5
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thanks so much for the response, I gave you a 5. No matter how much I ask him to hangout with me, he always dreads it and complains. Then if he does do anything with me, he'll just complain about it later. Thanks for the help though!
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