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I'm fifteen years old and I had some questions about parenting.
Now before anybody jumps to conclusions:
1) No I am not pregnant
2) I am not thinking about getting pregnant any time soon
I was just wondering, how do you know when you are ready for a baby? Me, personally, I can't wait to get married and start my family...but how do you know?
Mothers out there, I'd really like to hear from you. Did you all of a sudden just know you wanted to have a baby with your husband (or boyfriend, depending)?
And a stupid question, does it hurt? Pregnancy, I mean. I know that you must feel so great after finally having the baby since now there's this person that you've created and it's special and wonderful.
Did you have any worries? Any worrying during like the 8th month that you're just not sure? I'm worried that when I do get pregnant (when I'm ready of course) that at the last minute I'll feel too scared and wonder if I really will be a good parent.
And I know I'm only fifteen, but I really just wanted to know, and to hear from some of you. I am not going to run out and get pregnant just because I want a baby because obviously at fifteen I am nowhere near emotionally/physically ready to bring a child into the world. Just had some hypothetical/theoretical questions that's all. =]
Thanks. (link)
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Everyone has there own ways of knowing.
Some people wait until marriage, making sure they are financially ready, Have a good home,etc. being a parent is the most rewarding thing, It's a gift. However, It is also a challenge. When the baby is born the moment you hold that child in you're arms nothing eles matters but that child. Of course we have worries now and then, All parents do exspecially if you are exspecting a first child. We all wonder what kind of a parent we would be, It's normal. However, Once you become one the feelings go away usually.
BahaiMa22
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