If you don't like him, there's no reason to worry about what he's feeling. Lol I know it sounds a little selfish, but if you went out with him and don't like him, you'd just be leading him on, and that's even worse than turning him down.
If you think you sorta like him but aren't sure, you could always just give it a chance. Go hang out with him one-on-one once and if you feel like running for the hills at the end of the day, then you can tell him "hey, sorry, but I just don't like you like that."
All guys are immature. Trust me, it doesn't get any better when you get older. They're just immature in different ways, then.
If you're concerned about looks and his just aren't your style, then there's nothing wrong with that, and I think you can pretend not to notice that he likes you.
I suggest you try freewriting a little. Just for like, ten minutes, sit down with your computer or paper and a pen and write, and don't stop. Just type out or write out whatever comes to mind, and you aren't allowed to use the delete or backspace key. The idea is to get your thoughts moving, so you can't slow down.
After you do that a couple times you may find your conclusion as to whether you like him or not.
Good luck!
-Siren =)

Thank you! That is the best idea i have heard yet!

I'm a laid-back 26 year old with a Psychology BA, starting my MA program, and working my way into the field as quickly as I can. It took me an extra Bachelor's degree (in vocal performance and creative writing) to figure it out, but I was put on this Earth to help, to heal, and to love.

I have made the decision to dedicate my life and career to helping others. I am here to do just that.

I've been a member since 2004, and since I signed up, I've gone through quite a lot and learned quite a lot from it. I'm here to give guidance where I had none; no one should have to go through the difficulties I went through alone.

Feel free to visit my website/blog, if you want to read my experience with domestic violence and my thoughts on it.

***While I do tend to answer mental health and other health-related or medicine-related questions, I am by NO MEANS a licensed physician or practitioner of any sort. Any and all advice I give for these questions is from my own experience or studies.***

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