I am not sure if i like this guy. I mean, he acts really immature sometimes, but he just gets to me. And like i cant explain it. Seriously i know how are you supposed to help me if i cant explain. But its not like hes hot. Because he isnt really that cute. And he is immature at points but just i dont know. I dont have a clue what im feeling. Help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Siren_Cytherea answered Monday August 25 2008, 11:09 am: If you don't like him, there's no reason to worry about what he's feeling. Lol I know it sounds a little selfish, but if you went out with him and don't like him, you'd just be leading him on, and that's even worse than turning him down.
If you think you sorta like him but aren't sure, you could always just give it a chance. Go hang out with him one-on-one once and if you feel like running for the hills at the end of the day, then you can tell him "hey, sorry, but I just don't like you like that."
All guys are immature. Trust me, it doesn't get any better when you get older. They're just immature in different ways, then.
If you're concerned about looks and his just aren't your style, then there's nothing wrong with that, and I think you can pretend not to notice that he likes you.
I suggest you try freewriting a little. Just for like, ten minutes, sit down with your computer or paper and a pen and write, and don't stop. Just type out or write out whatever comes to mind, and you aren't allowed to use the delete or backspace key. The idea is to get your thoughts moving, so you can't slow down.
After you do that a couple times you may find your conclusion as to whether you like him or not.
Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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