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Q: Why do guys have to be such a mystery? Lol
Ok he says things like we should go hang out sometime just you and me, and he gets jealous really easily. One day i was hanging out with him and his friends and one of them said are you our cheerleader and i said "i am not anybodys cheerleader" And he said except mine. And the other boys started asking where i went to school and everything and this guy was just like she goes to southside ok. and i went to sit down on the road curb, and one of the dudes sat next to me and he just comes over there and makes the other dude scoot down and he sits between us. And he blushes when people say oh look there is your girlfriend. And he smiles when he sees me. And if he sees me, (he lives 3 houses down), he will run out with no shoes or shirt and come talk to me.
BUT he talks about how good looking other girls are and he never talks about me.
Please help me break this code and dont tell me what they do or dont do when they like you or websites. Just help me out. Because this guy has me going crazy! Haha
OH and PS we was chatting it up on myspace and i said did you miss me and he said no not really lolol jkjkjk in all caps and i said well thanks tyler really you make me feel great and he was like did i make you mad im sorry if i did i didnt mean too!!!
sorry its so long but i need help!
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Him talking about other girls has nothing to do with whether or not he likes you. Honestly, guys talk about that shit all the time. Hell, I do it, too. When I was with my last guy, I'd be like "Wow, that guy's hot," just not thinking about it. Then again, we had the kind of comfortable relationship where we just sort of knew that we loved each other and what we said about anyone else didn't matter.
What you told me about him running out with no shirt or shoes to come talk to you, how he always sits next to you, smiles when he sees you and doesn't correct people when they call you his girlfriend is pretty telling if you ask me.
A guy who didn't like you would probably say something like "She's not my girlfriend," and wouldn't bother going out to see you unless he was fully clothed.
This guy's making an effort to get your attention in any way, shape, and form he can. He probably doesn't want to be too obvious, which is why he isn't cutting the talk about other girls. He's teasing you, too, with the "no not really" thing. When my last guy liked me, he teased me nonstop about the insecurities he knew I had, and it drove me nuts, so I teased him back. We were pretty mean to each other, then kind of wound up connecting one night over The Art of Seduction and the rest was history.
Even just the thought that he wants to hang out alone with you, and gets jealous easily should be a sign. If a guy doesn't give a shit, he doesn't get jealous...unless he's randomly really emotional...in which case he's weird, lol.
Anyway, it's pretty clear to me that this guy likes you. He seems kind of hesitant about it for some reason, though. How do you feel about him? If you're on the same wavelength, you might wanna hang out just the two of you and get to know him better.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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Thank you. And i really am no on the same wavelength. I am somewhat undecided. Is it ok if i ask you another question?? :)
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bio
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I'm a laid-back 26 year old with a Psychology BA, starting my MA program, and working my way into the field as quickly as I can. It took me an extra Bachelor's degree (in vocal performance and creative writing) to figure it out, but I was put on this Earth to help, to heal, and to love.
I have made the decision to dedicate my life and career to helping others. I am here to do just that.
I've been a member since 2004, and since I signed up, I've gone through quite a lot and learned quite a lot from it. I'm here to give guidance where I had none; no one should have to go through the difficulties I went through alone.
Feel free to visit my website/blog, if you want to read my experience with domestic violence and my thoughts on it.
***While I do tend to answer mental health and other health-related or medicine-related questions, I am by NO MEANS a licensed physician or practitioner of any sort. Any and all advice I give for these questions is from my own experience or studies.***
If you need to get a hold of me quickly, my screen name on AIM is SirenCytherea. Just let me know you found me here.
I'm a strong believer in the idea that there are no stupid questions except the ones left unasked, so, please, keep an open mind, heart, and mouth.
Siren
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