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Boys are well...complicated...ASAP


Question Posted Sunday August 24 2008, 9:58 pm

Why do guys have to be such a mystery? Lol

Ok he says things like we should go hang out sometime just you and me, and he gets jealous really easily. One day i was hanging out with him and his friends and one of them said are you our cheerleader and i said "i am not anybodys cheerleader" And he said except mine. And the other boys started asking where i went to school and everything and this guy was just like she goes to southside ok. and i went to sit down on the road curb, and one of the dudes sat next to me and he just comes over there and makes the other dude scoot down and he sits between us. And he blushes when people say oh look there is your girlfriend. And he smiles when he sees me. And if he sees me, (he lives 3 houses down), he will run out with no shoes or shirt and come talk to me.

BUT he talks about how good looking other girls are and he never talks about me.

Please help me break this code and dont tell me what they do or dont do when they like you or websites. Just help me out. Because this guy has me going crazy! Haha

OH and PS we was chatting it up on myspace and i said did you miss me and he said no not really lolol jkjkjk in all caps and i said well thanks tyler really you make me feel great and he was like did i make you mad im sorry if i did i didnt mean too!!!

sorry its so long but i need help!


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Siren_Cytherea answered Monday August 25 2008, 12:57 am:
Him talking about other girls has nothing to do with whether or not he likes you. Honestly, guys talk about that shit all the time. Hell, I do it, too. When I was with my last guy, I'd be like "Wow, that guy's hot," just not thinking about it. Then again, we had the kind of comfortable relationship where we just sort of knew that we loved each other and what we said about anyone else didn't matter.
What you told me about him running out with no shirt or shoes to come talk to you, how he always sits next to you, smiles when he sees you and doesn't correct people when they call you his girlfriend is pretty telling if you ask me.
A guy who didn't like you would probably say something like "She's not my girlfriend," and wouldn't bother going out to see you unless he was fully clothed.
This guy's making an effort to get your attention in any way, shape, and form he can. He probably doesn't want to be too obvious, which is why he isn't cutting the talk about other girls. He's teasing you, too, with the "no not really" thing. When my last guy liked me, he teased me nonstop about the insecurities he knew I had, and it drove me nuts, so I teased him back. We were pretty mean to each other, then kind of wound up connecting one night over The Art of Seduction and the rest was history.
Even just the thought that he wants to hang out alone with you, and gets jealous easily should be a sign. If a guy doesn't give a shit, he doesn't get jealous...unless he's randomly really emotional...in which case he's weird, lol.
Anyway, it's pretty clear to me that this guy likes you. He seems kind of hesitant about it for some reason, though. How do you feel about him? If you're on the same wavelength, you might wanna hang out just the two of you and get to know him better.
Good luck!
-Siren =)

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