We are under obligation as columnists on this site not to give explicit sexual instructions or details, as it is a kid-friendly site.
I suggest you take a look at wikipedia or google "how to give a good handjob," because anyone here who gives instructions can be banned.

I can, however, tell you that either he'll tell you when to stop, or you'll...see...when to stop. Also, I would slow rather than stop. Try to put yourself in his body and imagine what would feel good for you - If you can manage to do the empath thing, you'll go far, and he'll be happy.
Also, you can tell him "I'm a little nervous," or "you might have to help me" and he might enjoy playing teacher. Personally, I hate it, but I know a lot of people that enjoy giving instructions. You could experiment a little and ask him "do you like that?" Just to kind of get a feel for what feels good for him.
Just remember, don't let him pressure you into doing anything you're not comfortable with. Being nervous and being uncomfortable are two very different things - as long as it's something you want to do, you can be nervous. If it's something you don't want to do and you're uncomfortable, that's a bad sign.
Good luck!
-Siren =)

hey sorry, I totally forgot about keeping everything kid friendly. I don't know what I was thinking! Thanks for the reminder! I'll go ahead and delete my question.

I'm a laid-back 26 year old with a Psychology BA, starting my MA program, and working my way into the field as quickly as I can. It took me an extra Bachelor's degree (in vocal performance and creative writing) to figure it out, but I was put on this Earth to help, to heal, and to love.

I have made the decision to dedicate my life and career to helping others. I am here to do just that.

I've been a member since 2004, and since I signed up, I've gone through quite a lot and learned quite a lot from it. I'm here to give guidance where I had none; no one should have to go through the difficulties I went through alone.

Feel free to visit my website/blog, if you want to read my experience with domestic violence and my thoughts on it.

***While I do tend to answer mental health and other health-related or medicine-related questions, I am by NO MEANS a licensed physician or practitioner of any sort. Any and all advice I give for these questions is from my own experience or studies.***

If you need to get a hold of me quickly, my screen name on AIM is SirenCytherea. Just let me know you found me here.

I'm a strong believer in the idea that there are no stupid questions except the ones left unasked, so, please, keep an open mind, heart, and mouth.

Siren

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