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I like my friend, Jake. He and I have had a "thing" once before, but it was about a year ago. I'm not sure if he likes me back. Sometimes I get signals that he might, but I'm not sure. Can you tell me what would be some "signals" that would point to one direction or the other (that he could like me, or that he couldn't).
How could I let him know that I quite possibly could like him without telling him straight up.
I don't know if this is enough information for you to answer my question, but I hope it is. Thanks. =)
If you think he likes you chances are he does and that is why you are somewhat aware. If his knees point to you when you are sitting. If his eyes always seem to stare at you for a fraction of a second longer than anyone else. If he playfully teases you. All signs he likes you.
And honestly it would show courage and strength if you just told him straight up yourself. But you could get a friend to just talk to him and be like "so what about (insert name here) liking you again?" and he would be like "what do you mean?" and then your friend could say "oh man you didnt know? Whoops guess its too late now."
But trust me, dont wait. I did and now its too late. I regret it now.
-hayley
EDIT:
dont worry about rejection. Im dead serious. And sorry it took so long. I was grounded :)...But seriously if you worry about being rejected all the time you will never learn to live. You will live a sheltered life and that is not what you need. If he dont like you so what. It just makes you one step closer to finding your soul mate.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! that was very helpful. I added some additional information to my question, and I was wondering if you had some time, that you could read it and tell me what you think about that. =)