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Hi, I think my bf is ready to have sex. It's like i kinda want to, but i don't think i'm ready. How do i know when I am ready.

Basically, i think that if you have to question whether you are ready or not - more than likely you are not ready.
But if you aren't sure whether either of you are ready you definitely need to talk about it together. If you just assume that he is ready, then you could pressure him or unintentionally pressure yourself kind of into doing something you aren't sure about.

Anyways, if and when you do end up having sex, be safe. For whatever reason, people find sex and everything hard to talk about but its a real issue. The easiest thing to do is use condoms which can protect from pregnancy and STD's. If you are on the pill, STD's are still possible.


Ps. I'm part of a group that specializes in peer education involving sex, etc. so if you have any other questions feel free to ask me!

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