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ok so ive had this BEST FRIEND since like the 6th grade (i am now going into the 9th). we were inseperable forever. until i had to move to germany. but i came back and everything and we would always talk on the phone and/or make plans. but she always had something to do and shed tell me the day before we were supposed to go wherever we go. or she just tells me straight up that she cant go because her mom has a new boyfriend and theyre trying to bond (the bf thing is true, im not so sure about the bonding thing). i always tell her to call me when she can do something and she says she will. but she hasnt called me since i came back which was in may. its not like i stalk her or anything, i just call her occassionally-maybe twice or three times a week. and lately she hasnt been answering my phone calls and it takes her forever just to call me back. im so sorry this was so long =[
please help me !!!!!! =/
First of all, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. But it is impossible to know what she is thinking if you don't say straight up how you are feeling. I mean, if you moved away for a while then she clearly had to move on -- she can't stay attached to some one that isn't always there. Sometimes people just drift away, but if the friendship is really this important to you then you definitely need to be completely honest and ask her whats going on -- don't beat around the bush.
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