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"Now pull the knife from my ever bleeding heart.
Tell me now your words never meant me harm."

I'm Allison.
I don't really care too much about ratings. Either you want my advice or you don't.

I've pretty much been through it all. From internet relationships to broken hearts to divorces to bad friends.

Ask me questions in my inbox, and please leave me feedback :] Numbers can only help me so much.

Here's a little about me non-advice related;
-I'm from Texas. Where the heat never ends.
-I love music from the indie/emo/alternative rock genre.
-Reading and swimming are two of my passions.
-Music is number one
I guess you could say I'm a very artistic person.

advice

My ex boyfriend moved to Sweden for two years, and we've talked on msn every day and stuff, and now he's moved back to our town.
I was so fucking happy when he called me and said ''I'm back in town, let's meet at Starbucks at 12''
So I go there to meet him, and I didn't see him anywhere.
I look around and there's a guy waving at me.
And I did a double take.
Before he left, he had blonde hair, messy, some piercings, and gauged ears.
Now, he has black long hair, more piercings and something that makes me want to cry, he's gauged his center lip piering to a 00g
( like this guy's lip:
http://www.bmezine.com/pierce/05-lips/A80502/high/npqe-rafa-e-dessa-9829.jpg)

Meanwhile I've had some boyfriends, and he's had some girlfriends, but I wanted to start dating him again.
But now...I feel so unattracted to him :(
I mean, I can't even kiss him. And he talks all weird.
And he's changed too. He's obsessed with gauging his lip now, and he thinks I should gauge my lip too.

What do I do now?
I still love him, but I feel like I love him as a friend, and he wants to get back together.

Help?

I'm sorry but that's just gross. And painful. And I thought gauged ears were bad.

If he's changed and isn't the same person that you fell in love with, and you can't even kiss him, then it's probably not going to work out.

And based on your feelings, you may have gotten over him while he was gone. Seeing as you had some boyfriends etc.

This relationship will probably be better as you two being friends and keeping a bond. But not a romantic one.

Just tell him that a lot has happened while he was gone, and you just don't feel like it's going to work out and you'd rather have him as a good friend.
If he cares about you, he'll understand and wont feel too hurt.

Oh and, how does he eat with that thing? Wouldn't food go everywhere? (Morbid curiosity.)

Hope I helped. Good luck.
-LoveSucks

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(Rating: 5) His drinking is limited to drinking with straws.
Food- he basically has to break it into smaller pieces and then swallow.
I find this lip stretching shit disgusting.
Don't worry, you're not the only one who thinks that :)
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