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So i absolutely HATEHATEHATE babies and anyone under the age of 10. they just really piss me off.
well my mom made me move in with her boyfriend who has 2 sons, one of which has a girlfriend who also lives with them. well she was pregnant. but they induced labor yesterday (gag) because she was a week overdue (big deal). and now its like everything revolves around that stupid thing, and its only been ONE DAY. my mom doesnt tell me i love you on the phone anymore she left me home alone all day today so she could go to the hospital and go see the repugnant thing, and i know that whenever my family comes over theyre not going to want to see me anymore its all gonna be about that monster.
so all im really asking is how do i make it through all this, and how do i not kill it, and deal with the crying, and all that shit. and most of all how do i get over my hate. because i seriously hate ALL kids.
Dang i understand not liking kids, but dont you think you are taking it over board a little...i mean yeah kids are annoying i completely agree, i cant deal with kids that scream their heads off either. But i do have a neice and i would kill for her. And quite frankly it sounds like to me you are more jealous of this new baby than anything else. You just have to get over this jealousy. You have to be comfortable with you because you cant get to be this baby and get all of the attention. And actually a week over due CAN be a big deal believe it or not. And yeah everything WILL revolve around the baby for a while. It was just born. And if you didnt want your mom to leave you home all alone, why didnt you go with her?? why dont you at least try to get along with the baby, as their is nothing you can do about it. A baby is going to cry. It cant talk. Its not going to say "hey change me" or "im hungry"...it dont work that way. And i cant tell you what to do about your hate other than just scream into a pillow or get out of the house or something. I get it i seriously do but threatening the kid and calling it names is not going to get you anywhere except in trouble. All the kid do was be born. It has not hurt you in any way shape or form. The fact that your mom dont tell you she loves you anymore, yeah its her fault not the babys. The fact that your step brothers girlfriend or whatever you call it had a kid, yeah that aint the babys fault either...see the pattern. Dont be mad about the kid because quite frankly i dont care about the rating, i just try to get the truth out and you dont need to be placing all of your problems on a kid that hasnt done a thing to you...its just not right...i get that you dont like kids i really do, some people dont. But you havent even got to know this kid yet. I mean really.
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