teardrops7's advice column

I could go through this whole story, but I wont so I'll try to make this short.. by the way, 16/f

So I went out with this guy. And, everything seemed perfect. He always said how he never wanted to lose me and how much he loved me. He was always afraid he would lose me. I also loved him soo much. And we had always said if for some odd reason we broke up, we would always be friends. But one night, he broke up with me. He said he didnt feel a connection. Of course I was upset about it for a few days, but I was happy we would still be friends. We talked for a little while after that, but then he started getting weird. He changed, and completely shut me out of his life. Its been since this past January, and Im still in love with him, barely making it through each passing day, trying to find a way to get him back, even just as a friend. He wasnt just my boyfriend, he was my best friend, whom I told everything to. He was the only one that understood me.. His best friend keeps telling me not to give up, but every time it seems like we are going to get back to normal, he just breaks my heart again and again. Ive tried to give up on him, but I cant. I think its because I dont want to, even though hes literally killing me. At this point, I dont know what to do. Ive been getting a few of my close friends' opinions, his best friend's opinion, and his cousin's opinion. And I just dont know what to do.. Please help..

--S0methingM0re

Ah. Unrequited love. It sucks. haha

just give it time my dear. Everyone goes through it and you dont deserve this guy breaking your heart. It is time to try and move on. Listen to sad songs, cry. It works. Have a girls night at home and just cry with your closest friends there to comfort you.

I mean just wait for him. He obviously isnt ready for a commitment or he wouldnt be pushing you away. Just give it time.
-hayley

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