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Ok, so 15/f...
I get along with pretty much everyone in my class. But, there's this one girl who just goes out of her way to bother me =( It's like effecting my self esteem. I don't understand why she acts this way. Like, I'll just be sitting there and she'll say something funny so I'll laugh and next thing I know she's all like "Did I tell you you could laugh?!" Ugh I hate her. But I can't just ignore her because I feel so totally stupid and self-conscious because of the way she calls me out in front of everyone =(
Any advice?
Stand up to her. Honey if you let others push you around you will just be a welcome mat for more to come!
next time she says could i tell you could laugh?
just say "did i tell you, you could tell me when to laugh? ugh NO...."
if she wants to get smart with you, then get smart back. Everyone might say ignore her but trust me it only makes it worse. And you thinking down of yourself is exactly what SHE wants. Why bc she feels that way. I know its cliche but its true. Dont be afraid to stand up to her. Bark is worse than her bite.
-h-
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice! I think I'd be a little nervous to stand up to her, but you're totally right, it's much better than to let her walk all over me! Thanks so much, this was very uplifting! =)