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Hey there, my name is Amanda.I am the type of person whom will tell you things straight up. Go ahead, ask me any question. If I can't answer it, I'll try my best to help you find it. I'm online a lot so questions will be answered asap.

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Anyways about me,
Loverocks has just been a nickname for me for about 6 years now. I am 26 years old, happily married to my hubby of 10 years. I am a stay at home mom of 4 great kids. Proud cub scout and girl scout mom. Also proud to be mom of a gifted child. Me and my hubby are starting our own auto repair biz. So...I'm a part time mechanic. Right now one of my main goals is to raise my kids the best I know how. I love to pull minor jokes on my friends and family. Dance with my kids and listen to my rock and country cd's.


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okay so i hate bringing my boyfriend over my house. my parents dont let us shut the door anymore because i guess they see we are getting more serious..they know he is in a gang so now they think he is a criminal...which he isnt. my dad thinks im going to become a chola (thats a girl gang member in my boyfriends gang) and all i hear is how they think hes a nice guy but hes a bad influence. they treat me like i have no brain and cant make mature decisions every since i got a tattoo. its like the tattoo labels me as "DANGER SHE IS GOING OVER THE HILL" kind of kid. AND IM NOT. i make smart decisions. they think im going to turn into my older brother and get myself locked up. what do i do? i dont want my boyfriend coming over anymore and when i go to my boyfriends house im not aloud over for longer then 4 hours. and yes we are sexually active and im planning on asking my mom for birth control...i want to prove to her im responsible and im looking out for myself. i dont exactly know what im asking...i just want to know peoples opinions on my situation.

-15/f

Well, lets see first of all I am not judging anyone. This is just my opinion. Gangs gets bad wraps because of all the media attention on the "bad" ones(I'll call them). Where you hear of drive by shootings and stuff like that. I guess as parents they fear for your safty more than anything because of it. A tattoo aint that bad its just tattoos are like symbols of rebelion you could say.

You need to prove to your parents you are a good person and you don't like trouble of any kind.

Hope this helps.
Feel free to send me any more questions you might have.

~Loverocks~

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