teardrops7's advice column

hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help??

Wow sorry to say this but are you like constantly high?? This guy on "the other coast" could be a very very VERY bad person. He could live down your street!! Be a rapist a murder, and he has all of your cell phone info...Get A Job. It works better and its safer and you dont have to degrade yourself to get the money.

As for your boyfriend tell him about the situation. And tell him what you plan to do about it. Be open and honest with him. DONT LIE. Maybe if you just said the truth he would trust you.
-hayley

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(Rating: 2) i know for a fact hes not "down the street" bc he has a cali area code. as for getting a job, ive applied everywhere in town but got hired yesterday and am starting tomorrow. so its not like i was too lazy. and no, im not high. i dont do drugs at all, after losing my best friend directly to drugs and alcohol last summer

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