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I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16, we've been together 4 months or so but i've known him for almost a year. My bff whos known hm 10 years says he's probably one in a million; meaning he isn't the type of guy after sex like most idiots....and he really is one in a million.
He's trustworthy, sweet, but if he even sees a guy hit a girl.....that guy needs to RUN!
ESPECIALLY if it was me.But....a lot of guys say that but some dude at his school talked bad about me and well.....it was not good for the guy-good thing about it was that theguy threw the first punch.so it was like self defense.
ANYWAYS. He told me he loved me and i freaked because my ex said that and i said it back but neither one of us meant it....with TJ(BF) though....its different.... get butterflies in my stomach even when i think about him....i'm going crazy even now cuz i can't see him today and i saw him yesterday! I know he means it cuz he really won't say that to anyone....he never has i'm the only one....and even his DAD said he was IN LOVE with me....even his sister and brothers....you know its true but i don't know if I AM! I've never been in love but it's different feeling with TJ! Ive NEVER felt like this.....HELP!?!?!?!?!
Awh! you sound like the perfect couple. And honestly i think you do love him, you are just afraid to get your heart broken. But it sounds as though TJ really loves you. And its really a heart mind controversy. You probably really do love him, maybe your just scared?? I mean like you said you and the last dude pretty much lied to yourselves. But i think this time is different. I think you really are IN LOVE with him.
-hayley
(Rating: 5) i AM scared actually and I feel comfortable saying 'I love you' where as with my ex i didn't.....he knows all about my ex and well he understands. With my ex saying ' i love you' infront of my mom to him was weird and i would like whisper it or say ditto on the phone if she was around...but with TJ i'll say it even if my dad is around!