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What am I feeling!?
I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16, we've been together 4 months or so but i've known him for almost a year. My bff whos known hm 10 years says he's probably one in a million; meaning he isn't the type of guy after sex like most idiots....and he really is one in a million.
He's trustworthy, sweet, but if he even sees a guy hit a girl.....that guy needs to RUN!
ESPECIALLY if it was me.But....a lot of guys say that but some dude at his school talked bad about me and well.....it was not good for the guy-good thing about it was that theguy threw the first punch.so it was like self defense.
ANYWAYS. He told me he loved me and i freaked because my ex said that and i said it back but neither one of us meant it....with TJ(BF) though....its different.... get butterflies in my stomach even when i think about him....i'm going crazy even now cuz i can't see him today and i saw him yesterday! I know he means it cuz he really won't say that to anyone....he never has i'm the only one....and even his DAD said he was IN LOVE with me....even his sister and brothers....you know its true but i don't know if I AM! I've never been in love but it's different feeling with TJ! Ive NEVER felt like this.....HELP!?!?!?!?!
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AWWWW okay, this is the type of guy everygirl wants!it does sound like your in love with him just not 100% comfertable saying it out loud to him. and you don't have to. You can tell him this flat out that you are confused on how you feel and you don't want to say something if you know that you may not mean it. make sure you say you do really like him. tell him about your ex. and just be like i don't want to say something i'm not ready for. i really do like you but i'm not sure if its love just yet. if hes the guy taht he sounds like, then he'll deffinetly understand. Besides, you can tell him you love him but not really mean it. but i think that for your sake you'd be better off just telling him about your previousl relationship and explaining to him that you may not be ready for that kind of comitment.
hope i helped
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Awh! you sound like the perfect couple. And honestly i think you do love him, you are just afraid to get your heart broken. But it sounds as though TJ really loves you. And its really a heart mind controversy. You probably really do love him, maybe your just scared?? I mean like you said you and the last dude pretty much lied to yourselves. But i think this time is different. I think you really are IN LOVE with him.
-hayley
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It sounds like you two are meant to be. If you love him, you shouldn't have a problem saying it back. If something is holding you back, then that probably means you don't love them. Don't say I love you to him if you don't mean it. He will understand. You would rather not say that to him, or say it to him and know in your heart it's a lie. Hope this helps.
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