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okayyyyyyyyyy;;
so, one of my best friends that ive known ever since the fourthhh graddeee is hanging with one of my ooothhheerr best friends.

like they met from me- how do i explain it.
but they hang out all the time now.
like my fourth grade friend lets call her - Lily- and my other best friend- Mary-

Lily would seem to be more excited when she sees mary.. like lily would be all dull with me.. and voice her opinions with me and sometimes even treat me like crap; but its really normal because she can be a selfish person.

but with lily; she lauughhhs, she goes with whattevver mary wants with out an opinion on it.

Lily lives right across the street from me and i always invite mary over;
so when mary is over shes like ": want to hangout with lily?"
im like " uh.. ? uh sure?"

-_-
when theyre together me and mary always get in fights because shes always so FAKE when shes with lily.
BOTH OF THEM ARE.

ughhhhhhhhhhh
so to prove my point more;

theyre hanging out together right now.

and i wasnt invited.
....

its always like a three thing

i dont know whos taking who away.
lily is taking mary away
and mary is taking lily away.

like; when im with them.
i just feel like crap.
nothing i could do to make them interested.

im nothing.
they seem so happy in "their" world...

i try not to think about it because it just makes me so made and depressed because i dont think i can really do anythign about it?

any advice?

dont get mad or depressed because it isnt worth it. You dont need to be treated like that. It is their loss and i know all of this is cliche but trust me its true. If they are going to treat you like crap you dont need them anyway. Its just not healthy. But i would try and talk to them seperately..tell them how you feel.
-hayley

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