The same thing applies to your porn addiction, though it seems to me that for you, it should go further. If you find yourself wanting to look at porn ALL the time, then you need to force yourself to go out and do other things.

You probably need some outside help as well. Here is a good website I found off of google. It deals with helping people overcome addiction to porn:

http://www.no-porn.com/

There are people out there like you, who are addicted to porn, among other things. Like any addiction, it is not healthy, and can be harmful to you in the long run. I advise you to check out that website. There is a survey, links to where you can help, etc., it seems to be pretty good. Otherwise, google "porn addiction."

I can only tell you my personal opinion regarding your above question. I do not see anything wrong with anyone, married or not, to masturbate every now and then. If it gets to a point where it's interfering with your personal life and those of your loved ones, then yes, it is a problem that needs to be dealt with. Oh, yes, and the issue of virginity is entirely personal, so if you think there's nothing wrong with being a virgin, it's your choice. Just understand that your being addicted to porn and masturbating is just that: an addiction. There are others out there who can help, just take a look at that site and its links.

thanks

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