beckyboo's advice column

my name's rebecca. i doubt you're even mildly interested in the irrelevant aspects of my life, so i'll get to the point. i'm not a professional psychologist nor do i pretend to be, yet i'll try to give you advice based on the common sense that, unlike many others on here, i own ;]

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well, my birthday is coming up and so i'm having like a little dinner/fun time at a hotel kind of thing. but, since it's not a humongous party, more like a group of maybe 20 people, i decided to have all of these really fun and sexy games. I know everyone is going to love them and it's going to be amazing. Last night I stayed up all night making them and i was having so much fun. But, now, in the morning, I kind of feel stupid. I don' know why. I just think it's stupid of me to have them. But at night, I get super excited about it again. I don't know why this happends?? Does anyone know??

I know exactly what you're talking about, I've had that feeling before. Fun/sexy games are risky, because people are either going to love them, or think they're stupid. When it's nighttime, you can imagine everybody having a great time and the whole thing going fabulously, but when it's during the day, it's more realistic. It's kind of like how when you have a huge test coming up. It's not that nervewracking as you're falling asleep, but during class, for days before the test, the panic starts to creep up.

Not sure if any of that made sense, but it's a normal feeling.

edit-- I think AskAllie phrased it a lot better than I did ;)

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