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Q: im babysitting 3 boys tomorrow nite. i have no idea what to do with them!!!!
any suggestions?
-i think one will be asleep by the time i get there.

15/f
That's funny, way back in High School (freshman year), I also babysat three boys, who were 6, 4, and 2 at the time. It might seem overwhelming to take care of three kids at once, but depending on their age, there are lots of things you could do to keep them busy and/or calm them down. One thing you should definitely do is ask their parents what their normal evening schedule is like (activities, etc.), and what their rules are- you especially need to know the evening rules. When I babysat, the parents told me some rules, like read a story before bedtime (usually around 8), one piece of candy or other snack only, dinner's in the fridge, etc., etc. That made it a lot easier on me and the kids. So you should make sure to ask their parents what the rules and evening activities are.

One thing though, is depending on the age, kids love to play games. If they have toys/games, you could play with them and keep them busy. If any one of them likes to draw, you could bring out paper and crayons or markers...that usually keeps kids busy for a while. If the kids have a favorite movie or cartoon, you could put that one for them.
Keep in mind, though, that the kids will probably want to do different things at different times. So, if one of them is having fun doing something, and another one is bored, you could simply suggest an activity, or ask what he feels like doing.
Also, read them a story before bedtime.

Don't worry, things will be fine. If the kids start acting up and saying things like, "you're not my mom," or are not following the rules, you can always say, "I'm here to take care of you, and I have to follow your parents' rules" or something along those lines. They might be really nice and obedient kids, I don't know...but if they are stubborn (some kids can be at times), make sure to be firm, but nice with them, almost like a teacher. Don't yell at the kids if they start yelling or screaming (and I'm not implying they will, it just happens with some kids), you just have to be firm.

Good luck, and have fun!

thanks so much!!

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