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theres this boy that i like and he likes me too. the problem is we never see each other. i dont want to be pushy and i know i cant invite him. hes really flirtatious so he'll make pretend plans for us. how do i get him to be serious because i want to see him

Sometimes guys joke around or pretend to joke around when they're actually serious; so if they get rejected it's not as embarrasing. If you want him to be serious, then you have to be serious. It's as simple as that. If he sees that you're really serious about wanting to hang out with him and be with him, he'll probably follow suit...but you have to initiate the seriousness ;)


::Jasmine::

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