teardrops7's advice column

I like my best friend. i grew up with him and he was my best friend for the last 3 years. I told him I liked him and he said he liked me then everything just stopped for 2 weeks i dono why and we did nothing about it and for a week of that i was in dead hate with him id do anything to piss him off but now were now really close again (cursing him out to telling him I love him(in a friend way). i love him but I treat him like my other best friends. They think that’s wrong. I can say anything to him. Im just very comfortable around him. He knows I cut, rubberband, depressed, and struggling and he is there for me through it. He made it so much better and makes me worry a lot less about it. I love being around him. We used to talk about our crushes of other people and us, but now when it comes to talking about crushing or love we smile and end up flirting like little kids in a way I love it lol. Since everyone stereotypes Im gothic but my clothes and hxc music scares him but he loves it for me somehow. He knows I love him ive told him before and wrote I love him in a note today but I doubt he read it. hes also pretty jelous, over nothing, i have just as much guy friends as girls. he tries to stop the play fights between me and guys or me sittin on their laps or carnival rides, i always go to carnivals. I don’t know If Im making a big deal about this or what it’s tearing me up. This is the only thing I can’t talk to him about. what should I do? I am lost. 13 but 14 next month femalee : )

well darling im not stereotyping so dont worry..i think its great that he sees you for you and not your exterior...and maybe you were angry at him when you would "do anything to make him p.o." because you wanted him to make the move..maybe you thought that you had already done your part, and if he wanted you bad enough he would comply?? am i right??

Maybe he is afraid to fall in love with you...it happens...maybe he doesnt want you to know that he might actually love you too...maybe he is running from his feelings..you could scare him..dont nag him about it though...i have an idea as to how you could bring it up again...

take him somewhere where you and your friends normally go!! just only take him...dont let him think of it as a date or anything, just let you to be alone..wait until the silence is reached then look him in the eyes and say "(insert name her) i love you".....maybe not being around the other friends he will give in to your "seduction"...

matter of fact maybe that is why he hasnt done anything about it...maybe its embarrasement or nervousness or pressure from the peers...??

xoxo
teardrops7

hope it all works out

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(Rating: 5) thanks-but he probly is afraid of me now.. yesterday mornin for school i had to much coffee that mornin and took too much medication. i was extremely dizzy and outa it when i started talkin

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