careless-fun's

advice

Ok so I really am a slut. That sounds bad, but here's my deal. About a month ago I met this guy named Dave. We talked for a week, until he took me to this party and well...I got wasted. We woke up the next day together and we'd had sex. After that we have sex all the time. The only problem I'm seeing this guy named Carson. Carson and I have been together for four months. Bad I know. But Carson and I don't really hit it off in bed. Dave and I hit it off well, but Dave isn't someone I am REALLY attracted too. But Carson I really like his personality he just can't perform in bed well. I don't know what to do. Should I be with Carson or Dave? I really don't like cheating on Carson like this, but I'm so unsatisfied.

At least you can accept what you are even though it doesn't really sound like you're a sl**. It just seems like your having troubles figuring out what to do. But I also am one to accept what I am and I am basically a jerk. So believe me, when I say good guys are not easy to come by. Carson seems like he's a good guy. So I think you should let him know what you think he should do better. Go faster, slower, new things, etc? Tell him so he will know and stop have sex with Dave. I'm a guy so I know how most guys think and Dave probably thinks that you are easy to get with because he doesn't even have to be in a relationship with you. Let me know how it goes and I hope I helped.

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