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me and my Bf has like 4 years thogether ,From the first time I did sex I really didn't like it at all but I just did it because off him
But now is extra boring and I really never want to do it ,...he asked me what was going on and I couldn't answer him
It's not that I don't love him anymore ,but I don't want to have sex
I even sometimes cry because I don't want to do it and if I do it and did want to ,...I ussualy cry afterwards in the bathroom

Is this normal ?

I'm not a girl but I do know that you shouldn't be emotionally crying due to sex. It seems like sex is an uncomfortable activity for you. Since you two have been together for 4 years most likely yall are in love. So love can stand the test of time meaning that he should be okay with the fact that it may be best if you stop having sex for a while. Talk to him about it and let him know how you are feeling. Let me know what happens and I hope I helped.

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