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im depressed!!! not like suicidal but i need help!! but okay full story--i wrote guy i liked a note telling him i liked him--he thought it was weird so i wrote an apology note for telling him i liked him through a note---he wrote back said he was gay and gave me a number--i called it and it was my friend austin-- okay problem time!! i am so mad! i feel like crying right now! why did he lie to me--about gayness and number.. why didnt he just tell me the truth?? i can take it ima big girl!! i hate that he is jerky but i still cant get him out of my head! why am i having such a hard time letting go?? i mean if he were to ask me out i wouldnt be all like YES but i would be considering and i dont know why?! people are telling me things back and forth. im getting sick of debating and causing conflict in my mental and emotional states. so im going outside of the box.. i think ima gonna cry.. ugh! what is wrong wit me? nothing i no its him. i dont deserve a jerk like that but he is just so sweet and gorgeous--well except the lying to me but he is really friendly and considerate to me now.. o man o man o man..

I'm guessing he's one of the cutetr more popular guys. Either way... That gives this boy no right to treat you this way. By everything you said I can tell that you are conciderate and caring. You are giving him too much credit despite him lying and having no consideration whatsoever for your feelings. Don't be depressed over this boy because your better off without such a guy. If he pulled that on you, would you want him to pull that rude stuff with your friends and family??

You need to find someone who can and wiull properly treat you as you deserve.Like a princess. You will have a lot of mini heartbreakes like this, and a lot of bigger ones-but you have to remember you are worth it, you're just looking for a guy who is too.

Hope I helped. If you have any more trouble let me know.

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(Rating: 5) thanks im in the process of getting over it- :[ -and if this is a lil heartbreak i hate to see a big one--i will let you know if i have anymore difficulties..and you did help

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