When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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I know...its long, but PLEASE HELP!!!!
Okay...I dont know what to do. Im really really really into this guy, but I dont even really know him. He was friends with my ex and i added him on myspace. We only talked once on myspace and thats when he asked me who i was and we sent a few messages back and forth sayin what we were doing. but after that night (two or three weeks ago) we never talked again. Im always thinking about him though. I even had a dream ((no joke)) that he asked me out last night. Its getting crazy. I've never even heard his voice before. I see him around school all the time though. I know its all just lust but I feel like Im really in love with him. I've had a crush on him (if thats possible) since I first saw him based on how extremely cute/hot/sexy he is. && I've talked with friends who are friends with him and they say hes really nice and everything but hes kinda shy. Hes exactly how i pictured my "perfect guy" to be. I really want him to notice me but we have no classes together, and we never talk on myspace and I always get so nervous when Im the one to break the ice with someone, and honestly i dont know how. I dont know what to do. I know i should get over it or do something about it but I cant. Im just stuck with these feelings and I hate it. Please....any kind of advice will help...anything. i really need some help. (link)
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Hey girl,
I don't think that you should back out of this or get over him, because, since your excited about something, and interested in getting involved in it, then go for it. Besides, its not everday, that every one of us finds their dream guy or perfect guy.
I understand how hard it is to take the first step, or make a move on to this, plus that he doesn't even know your feelings towards him.
So here is the thing, its probably bad luck that you guys don't get to be online on myspace at the same time, so instead, just leave him a message there or send an email or something, and talk normally, like your friends, or you know, ask about him, about school, what he's been up to. Just the same ol' friendly tone, showing him that your interested in learning about his latest news and making regular small talks.
He'll reply, cause anyone else in his position would do, even if its a girl or any other guy.People are friendly, they like to gain more friends, make new connections, and make small friendly conversations. Then one time after the other, start learning more about him, and you'll find him doing the same in return, learn what he likes and what he doesn't, and all such stuff.
And after that, there are two possibilities, either you, yourself, wouldn't like him after all, or would find him, as not the guy you thought he was. Or you will start taking steps forward, and he will do the same on his side, till he say... exchanges numbers with you, or asks you out, or at least, shows interest.
But here is the thing, such stuff takes time, sometimes alot of time, or sometimes just a few days or weeks. But as long as you have the will and enthusiasm, then why not??
Thats it, thats my opinion, it has always worked out for me, so you go girl and do your thing.
If you need any further help, please be free to contact me.
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This was the best advice anyone's ever given me. Thank you so much. I'll take your advice and slowly start getting to know him. Thanks again! xoxo
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