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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.
You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.
Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.
-Volleyball2150
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I really like him and all but I'm really not sure how to get him to try things with me. Help?
How do you let him know you're ready for him to kiss you, or hold your hand or something like that. I don't want to be the one to start.
:/ Anyone?
If you don't start it, then how will he know you're ready for this?
Maybe try something easier, like when you're standing, stand really close by him and have your arms touch each other. If you're sitting, scoot in closer. If you're looking at him, gaze into his eyes. Those are some signs that he will understand that you are really into him and want to go further.
If none of those don't work, I would suggest starting. When you're walking, let him go in front of you and pretend you're talking to a friend. Then run and catch up with him and when you're almost there, grab his hand and then don't let go of it. =D
Or you could be walking with him and if you see something interesting, be like "I want to show you something" and then grab his hand and show him. Then just don't let go of his hand. ha ha
For the kiss, well... for that part, you can't really START it because its a 2 person job. wait until the right moment, like when you 2 are alone, or sitting or something like that. Then when both of you look into each others eyes and stare for more than 2 seconds, thats when you know that he's ready. slowly move your head closer to him and thats a big sign that you want to kiss him. Then from there, it's all magic! Every first kiss is natural and different. Yours may last a few seconds, maybe longer... maybe he will chicken out, maybe you'll love it, maybe you'll hate it. But for everyone its different. Just let the chips fall into place.
Good luck!
-volleyball2150
PS: if all fails, you could try writing him a note/text/email/IM and be like 'truth or dare' then when he says dare, you say 'dare you to kiss me on saturday' or something along those lines. got it?
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! This was one of those answers that explains everything. lol. Thanks again!