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14/f
i've had boyfriends before, but this boy, is my world. he loved me when i didn't even love myself.
we have been going out for a year && a few months, but suddenly his grandma has cancer and there are other reasons, but hes moving to Ecuador. He told me he'll come back for me in two years. [He's moving in two weeks] I spent last night crying till i threw up and only got an hour a sleep. 2 years though!? what am i suppose to do? im only 14. his parents asked for me to come with him, but i said no. i can't, im too young and even i know that. advice or opinons are appreciated =/

This is a terrible situation, and unfortunately you are going to have to make the best of it. You can't stop him from moving away, but you can keep in touch and maintain a relationship. You can still talk to him on the phone every night and instant message each other constantly. If you really want to see him, then get a part time job to hellp save up money for a plane ticket. Maybe you could get your mom to let you spend a summer there.

You just have to trust that everything happens for a reason, and that your relationship is strong enough to last. Think about it this way, if you guys can get through two years apart, then you will be able to get through anything.

Good Luck.
Sarah

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