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long distance, boyfriends moving.
14/f
i've had boyfriends before, but this boy, is my world. he loved me when i didn't even love myself.
we have been going out for a year && a few months, but suddenly his grandma has cancer and there are other reasons, but hes moving to Ecuador. He told me he'll come back for me in two years. [He's moving in two weeks] I spent last night crying till i threw up and only got an hour a sleep. 2 years though!? what am i suppose to do? im only 14. his parents asked for me to come with him, but i said no. i can't, im too young and even i know that. advice or opinons are appreciated =/
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Ohh my god I am so sorry !! okay if you really loved him and he feels the same way you should keep your relationship if he has a computer you can talk threw emails or webcams and maybe once in a while you can visit eachother but sorry to bum you out long distance relationship don't work sometimes because one might cheat on the other so you could leave your relationship on a hold until he comes back but still talk to eachother but follow your heart (i know that sounds cheasy but it's true)god bless to his grandma!
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aww that's so sad!
luckily, technology can help keep you guys close. im & email each other and plan to meet somewhere in the near future. if it's meant to be, you will find a way. maybe they will only be there for a little while...[things can change]
hang out a lot before he moves and enjoy every minute you spend together... that's what you'll hold on to when you are down and missing him. <3
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Wow, tough situtation. Nothing you do or say is going to stop him from moving. The best you can do is try extrememly hard to keep in touch. Don
t jsut e-mail and IM either. Call as much as you can& save money so that you can go there for vacation and spend time with him. It sounds like he & his family love you & if you really love him ( which it sounds like you do) you'll be able to wait for him. Don't spend all your time worrying...live your life & the two years will past faster than you know it. If you can make it through two years, you can make it through anything.
~Morgan
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This is a terrible situation, and unfortunately you are going to have to make the best of it. You can't stop him from moving away, but you can keep in touch and maintain a relationship. You can still talk to him on the phone every night and instant message each other constantly. If you really want to see him, then get a part time job to hellp save up money for a plane ticket. Maybe you could get your mom to let you spend a summer there.
You just have to trust that everything happens for a reason, and that your relationship is strong enough to last. Think about it this way, if you guys can get through two years apart, then you will be able to get through anything.
Good Luck.
Sarah
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