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alright ive known this guy for about a year. and it is like we were made for each other right. but one problem, he has a gf. but the other night he told me he wasnt in love with her, and that hes in love with someone else. what i wanna do is play hard to get, because if i am the one hes talking about, i dont want to sound to desperate. i want him to want me, more than i want him. can anyone help?

Well...there's no shades of grey here. You're either the person he's talking about, or your not. He either loves you, or loves someone else.

Don't play hard to get, he has a girlfriend. He's going to want to know you're interested (If he does love you) before he breaks up with her. So here is what you do: Spend more time with him, flirt wih him. See if he makes time to see you even if he's busy, if he flirts back. Since he didn't tell you who he was talking about, there's a about an 60% chance it's you.

But if you were really paying attention when he said it, you can possibly find out now!

Think back to that time and place of his confession.

When he said it was he looking you straight in the eye, unblinking, as if hinting it's you?

Was he avoiding your eyes, did he look/sound embarrased? Because that also hints that it's you.

Did he say it all causally like "Yah I have a girlfriend but I love someone else." like it was no big deal, and he wasn't holding eye contact or avoiding your eyes. He kind of just said it nochalantly? Then I would think that it wasn't you.

So think about it, and the way he said it, it will make finding out if it's you way easier.


Good Luck!


::Jasmine::

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