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well my brother has this friend and his name is josh. i really like him like that and i think he likes me back because my mom can tell when he comes over he always looks at me,taks to me,sits with me,and we have lots of fun together but my brother wont let us date and he wont ask me out because he is afraid of what my brother will do but my mom says go for it.and i really want to but ther is this other guy that i like named eric and he moved away but we will go to high school togeather in like two years should i wait for eric or go for josh now?


im 15 and female help me,

chira

Two years is a long time to wait for someone, your feelings for Eric can change in two years and most likely will.

I would go for Josh, make the first move and let him know you're interested. Honestly, what could your brother do about it? If you really like him then go for it, your brother will get over it eventually.

Maybe you could sit down and talk to him about it, and tell him how you feel about his friend... and even if he doesn't like you two dating, you don't need his permission. He just might feel better if you actually talk to him about it and don't just start dating his friend.

Josh might be reluctant about dating you because of your brother, but if he really like you then he won't listen to him. Let him know that he won't have to chose between you two, and don't let it come down to that.

::Jasmine::

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