_marcialynn's advice column

I'm Marcia. Somehow, even though I'm only 15, I've changed enough over the past year for my entire lifetime. I've been through a lot, and I've seen a lot. I've dyed my hair horrible colors, I've gained & lost best friends. I've had idiot boyfriends and amazing boyfriends. I've fallen for friends, I've had my heart broken, and I've done the stupidest things. Almost anything you can think of, I've been through it. I never seem to do the right thing on the first try myself, but I learn from that- that's probably why I'm good at giving advice. I want to be a psychitrist when I'm older, and I think this is as close as I can get for now (:
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I been hanging out with this girl for many months now. We had are up and downs and where okay. Well, she was told by her best-friend, who told her i was no good and all the bad shit and she stop talking to me for about a month and half(ended in june). Then, we went out starting back this month, after which all the feelings we had for each other came up when we didn't. I got emotionally after we hanged out and told her I had feelings stronger for her than friends, but before i can say anything, she tells me the same thing first! So, i am cool but now she likes doesn't talk on the phone much after that. But she hungs me and gigles and gets goofy when I am around and she tells my mom stuff and i be listening on the other phone, like she likes me and her heart is fine where it is with us and all that. Can someone give me some good help! I desparate, please can we chat on yahoo messenger or something. I need some answers.

thanks

First of all, this girl sounds like she really likes you, and I don't think you have anything to worry about :] Every relationship that's important has ups & downs. I had the same problem after I started dating one of my good friends. Basically, I just talked to him about how I felt, how it was weird and everything, and things got better. He started calling me more & asking me to hangout, instead of things being awkward.

Hope that helped & Good luck :]

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