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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.
You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.
Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.
-Volleyball2150
BODY EXERCISES AND WORKOUTS! my way or the highway
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okay so last year at school i had this really good friend named Sara. we had been friends for like 2 years and we told eachother EVERYTHING! we had a very good friendship. Then i got some new friends and so did she and we were still really good friends anyway even though she hated my friend named kelli. So sara started hanging out with some of the popular girls. me and sara's friendship started to fade cause sara started getting really clingy and really annoying and i was getting fed up with it! so then all of these rumors started going around about how kelli had broken up sara and my friendship and it totally wasn't true. so kelli used to be popular and all but now all of her friends (except for me) all started being mean to her and said they didn't want to be her friend anymore cause of what she did. kelli and me got really close and sara didn't want me to be her friend and tried to get me to join everyone else and i just said no and we never realy talked after that. so then more rumors started going around that i was kellis slave and that she was taking advantage of me and stuff like that which so wasn't true! so then after school ended people hated kelli and liked sara and then me and sara started talking again and stuff and we are friends again but now she started ignoring me again and i don't no what to do! So i'm friends with sara and kelli and thye both hate eachother and sara doesn't want me to be friends with kelli. please help me i no it's confusing sorry!
OK so whoever made up those rumors are soo mean! In my personal opinion, Sara is not a loyal friend. Forget her because she's the one who hates kelli and she was the one trying to get you away from kelli. If Sara was truely a good friend of yours, she would've respected you and let you keep kelli as a friend. not try to pull you away from her. A true friend lets other friends have their moments and individual space. Ya know what I mean?
I really can't make the decision for you. only you know what is best for you. You have to decide who is a true and loyal friend, and who is the enemy who just want's you for them? And another thing, about those rumors, well the best thing is to just ignore them. Don't try to fix everything because sometimes that just makes it worse. So just ignore them because the only thing that matters is what you think about them.
If sara ditched you for more popular girls, then she isn't even worth keeping. Even if you 2 are talking again and becoming friends. just think of the future, what if she starts being clingy again? do you really want all of that drama to start all over again?
remember, it's your choice.
-volleyball2150
(Rating: 5) thanks you helped alot!