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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

-Volleyball2150



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Ok im 13 and My mom caught me i have an 15 year old boyfriend and we had it and my mom caught me........Help...i need help nobody will tttalk to me and im getting fatter everyday i think im pregnant...HELP

Ok first thing is first. Talk to your mom and tell her that you are scared. Tell her that you know what you did is wrong. Tell her that you don't care if you punish her right now, as long as she can help you. you NEED her. I'm sorry if you dont want to hear that, but you need her right now. Get her to take you shopping and buy you a pregnancy test. If it's positive... well I can't really tell you what to do next. You just have to talk with your mom about this. If you arn't pregnant, you HAVE to tell your mom exactly what she wants to hear. Which is have you say you're sorry and that you will not do this again. She loves you and doesn't want you to get hurt. You just threw way that trust with her and now she will probably never trust you again with anything. You need to earn that trust back. you NEED to tell her that you're sorry, even if you're not (( I can't see why you wouldn't be sorry )) and tell her that you really regret this.

Honestly, I think a 13 year old that is pregnant with a 15 year old son is just stupid and immature. If you were mature enough for your age, you would've waited until you were for sure ready (( for me, it's when i'm married! ))

anyways, i'm not going to give you a lecture now. Your mom is the one to do that. I would help you, but what you did was very very wrong and you deserve to be punished for this. I really don't care if you don't think I give good advice, or if you hate me right now for saying this... but it's the truth.

You need to put you and your mom's fight away right now and just think about what to do next. If I were you, I would dump that guy. Anyways, try to get a doctor's appointment ASAP! take a pregnancy test and maybe go to a clinic. I know of a clinic that's very good but i'm not sure if it's around you... it's called

West Suburban Teen Clinic

It's a very good clinic and very affordable. ( so that means that they'll take as much money as you have.. even if it's only 3 dollars )) They'll do a few preganancy and STI and STD tests on you. Also all of your information is annonoymous so you don't have to include your name or address or any of that...

I HIGHLY RECOMMEND that you don't do this anymore and be careful next time.

I hope everyhting goes well
-volleyball2150

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(Rating: 5) THANKS SOOO MUCH....I TALKED TO MY MOM and she got me a pregnacy thingy..THANKS...buh bye
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