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ok please help PLEASE
Ok im 13 and My mom caught me i have an 15 year old boyfriend and we had it and my mom caught me........Help...i need help nobody will tttalk to me and im getting fatter everyday i think im pregnant...HELP
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Ok first thing is first. Talk to your mom and tell her that you are scared. Tell her that you know what you did is wrong. Tell her that you don't care if you punish her right now, as long as she can help you. you NEED her. I'm sorry if you dont want to hear that, but you need her right now. Get her to take you shopping and buy you a pregnancy test. If it's positive... well I can't really tell you what to do next. You just have to talk with your mom about this. If you arn't pregnant, you HAVE to tell your mom exactly what she wants to hear. Which is have you say you're sorry and that you will not do this again. She loves you and doesn't want you to get hurt. You just threw way that trust with her and now she will probably never trust you again with anything. You need to earn that trust back. you NEED to tell her that you're sorry, even if you're not (( I can't see why you wouldn't be sorry )) and tell her that you really regret this.
Honestly, I think a 13 year old that is pregnant with a 15 year old son is just stupid and immature. If you were mature enough for your age, you would've waited until you were for sure ready (( for me, it's when i'm married! ))
anyways, i'm not going to give you a lecture now. Your mom is the one to do that. I would help you, but what you did was very very wrong and you deserve to be punished for this. I really don't care if you don't think I give good advice, or if you hate me right now for saying this... but it's the truth.
You need to put you and your mom's fight away right now and just think about what to do next. If I were you, I would dump that guy. Anyways, try to get a doctor's appointment ASAP! take a pregnancy test and maybe go to a clinic. I know of a clinic that's very good but i'm not sure if it's around you... it's called
West Suburban Teen Clinic
It's a very good clinic and very affordable. ( so that means that they'll take as much money as you have.. even if it's only 3 dollars )) They'll do a few preganancy and STI and STD tests on you. Also all of your information is annonoymous so you don't have to include your name or address or any of that...
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND that you don't do this anymore and be careful next time.
I hope everyhting goes well
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